The big number

January 11, 2006 Gus 15 comments

Gudday all!

On the drive to work this morning, there was a very interesting topic brought up regarding the amount of people who lie about the number of people they’ve slept with.

What really surprised me is how much straight people seem to get around! I was under the impression that most straight men didn’t really score as much as they said, but in a lot of cases they seem to be just as promiscuous as us queers! There were phone-ins boasting of 50, 100, and even a staggering 330!

Also asked was “how experienced do you desire your partner”, with a lot of men wanting a double standard i.e. they had 80+ but wanted a partner with less than 10 under the belt.

So here is the poll for you… the answers are masked and you can be assured of my confidentiality (pinky promise)…
Answer truthfully! For the record I thought I was doing pretty well at 25, but it seems that I may well be pretty inexperienced compared to some!

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Written by jimpy about 5 years ago. Reply

Pah! Prudes the lot of you!
Written by animator about 5 years ago. Reply

um how do I phrase this?

25!!!

seriously what do you define as #1?
what do you define as a partner? a day, a week, a month, a year?
what do you define as slept with? shared a bed and ZZZzzz, rub ‘n’ tug, oral, anal, in a bed, at a beat, in a car, one night stand, a roll in the hay?
- Written by volacious_gus about 5 years ago. Reply
  
  Bah!!!!!
  Only back passage fun, do I define as a “Home Run”
  It can be in a bed, car, airplane wing, whatever you like dear, for one night or multiple. But *different* partners is the key here :p
  - Written by zhasper about 5 years ago. Reply
    
    Only back passage fun, do I define as a “Home Run”
    
    Why?
    
    To further elaborate..
    
    Why do you consider things that involve both people get naked, hot, sweaty, and cum shooting everywhere, to not count if they don’t involve “back passage fun”?
    
    Also, what do you include in back-passage fun? Rimming? Anal insertion of objects other than my cock? fingering?
    
    Lastly – does that mean that, hypothetically, if adam gave/got head from someone, you wouldn’t consider it cheating – but if he stuck hsi cock up someones arse you would?
Written by lyradis about 5 years ago. Reply

The age question needs to be fixed.

15-18
18-22

…im 18. That leaves me where?
- Written by volacious_gus about 5 years ago. Reply
  
  Well, being an engineer, it should really read 18.00.
  Hence, if you are 18.6223 years old, you would fall into the 18-22 category
  
  You know how I like to be difficult
Written by bubzyboi about 5 years ago. Reply

Home Run definition?
Why does anal sex always get that title? I have been with quite a few guys but very few have I let have anal sex with me,just because I didn’t feel like it or feel like I needed it.Both of us cumming is counted as a home run for me…which is why I’m not voting till you agree with me lol
- Written by sych about 5 years ago. Reply
  
  this particular definition is also going to heftily lower *my* score. only a small percentage of my encounters have involved your idea of a “home run”.
  - Written by volacious_gus about 5 years ago. Reply
    
    Well then you can hold your head up and tell everyone you’re pure!!! heh heh
- Written by volacious_gus about 5 years ago. Reply
  
  bah!
  You don’t have to vote if you don’t want to… I remember having this discussion some time ago on LJ as to what constitutes “sex”, and the poll results showed that “all the way” usually involved someone not walking for a few hours afterwards.
  
  Personally I feel that most other activities are just foreplay, but that’s individual preference I guess.
  - Written by bubzyboi about 5 years ago. Reply
    
    That attitude denigrates my sexual experiences.Some of the best I’ve had did not necessarily involve being sore afterwards!
    - Written by volacious_gus about 5 years ago. Reply
      
      Aww sorry!! I didn’t mean to offend you! Everyone values sex in a different way, all they are all valid. Just for the purposes of this poll though, I have to draw a line somewhere
      - Written by Anonymous about 5 years ago. Reply
        
        I definitely agree with bubzyboi. How would someone shooting cum in your mouth, for example, be any less of a sexual experience than when is it shot up your arse? For me, the distinction is further diminished by the fact that I would be just as upset if any partner of mine had a wank with/blew someone, as if they had anal sex with someone.
        
        This ridiculous notion of defining oral sex etc as something less of an achievement stems from the straight world, where vaginal sex really was the ‘ultimate’ goal because of its reproductive benefits. However, nothing in gay sex leads to reproduction – so pray tell, why should it matter what hole it goes in?
        
        P.S, I’ve been fucked many a time, and have always been able to walk. Real men take it hard!
Written by zedness about 5 years ago. Reply

Those heteros aren’t nearly as sweet and sexless as certain moralistic types would have us believe. Gay men don’t have the monopoly on sexual “immorality”, no sirree. You just have to know where to look.

Funnily enough it’s in similar places to where the homos get up to their mischief: cheap nightclubs, drunken parties, friends of friends…..

I took your poll, but I included 4 women with whom I’ve gone all the way in the final tally. Hope that’s okay
- Written by volacious_gus about 5 years ago. Reply
  
  Oh yes. I know well some straight boys and girls that would put us dirty queers to shame.
  
  Why not include women??? I included the one I was with in my tally. They definately count

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